In
early 2009, which in post-baby time feels like two decades ago, Allison
and I spent months reading about, comparing, and choosing the donor we
would use when trying to get pregnant. Knowing that we'd likely each
carry one child, we decided to buy enough samples so that we could use
the same donor for each of us. Then the kids could be biologically
related.
We
decided on our donor and purchased eight samples to get us started on
my IUI attempts. Our donor was new to the program, and donors typically
have to agree to a one-year commitment, so we knew we'd have plenty of
time to top up our samples once we saw how quickly (or slowly) the
attempts went.
Round
about attempt number 4 (out of 5) we were poking around on the web and
noticed that our donor number wasn't populating anymore. Our donor is
from the US and deposits at a US bank, but we actually buy the samples
through a Canadian lab that works with the US lab. After speaking to the
lab in the US, my heart sank a bit when they told me that not only did
our donor quit the program, he also had a vasectomy.
Calls
to both labs indicated that they were also sold out of our guy's
samples. I asked each facility to check stock that had been purchased
and stored. In Canada we struck out, but in the US, there were three
samples that someone else was storing. I asked to be put on a waiting
list in case the samples were sold back to the bank.
The other day I came home to an email saying that they had three samples of our donor available again for purchase.
Score!
But,
there's a caveat. When samples are released to Canada, they have to
undergo additional testing. Because of the Canadian release
requirements, I suspect we'll have to pay more to have the samples
tested, but we'll likely lose one (if not two) of them to the process.
Right
now I'm waiting to hear back from my contact at the US facility. I'm
excited at the possibilty of being able to get more samples, but I'm
trying not to get too happy for fear that we won't be able to buy them. I'll be bummed knowing there are some perfectly good
samples just out of our reach.
Keep your fingers crossed for us!
Vial photo used in image is courtesy of Kriss Szkurlatowski.
Oh, I really hope you can get the samples!! How nerve wracking this process must be for your family.
ReplyDeleteWhen my sister and her girlfriend (fiance) begin the process of trying to have children, I'll know where to send them for advice though. :)
Thanks Holly Ann! I've certainly spent the past few days more keyed up than usual.
ReplyDeleteWhen your sister and her fiancee are ready, send 'em our way!